Monday, April 6, 2009

Enlightenment.

Everyone needs an outlet somewhere, sometime. you may find that in the form of a female companion with whom you share an intimate relationship with, or just an ordinary girl with a mile-long shoulder for you to lay your thoughts on. Then again, sometimes you may turn to your own male friends. I believe every guy out there has his own clique, a group of friends he calls "the guys", except maybe the occasional, 1 out of 10 guy who's slightly gay and goes out with girls all the time. Back to my point, all i'm saying is being a guy you might sometimes feel there's no need for you to tell other people issues that are bothering you. I understand because i know how it feels when one has to live up to the "man" image and not break down and cry, sobbing your problems to everyone around you. But once in awhile, you might wanna' try doing just that. Find a friend, share your problems. If they are truly what you deem them to be(friends), they will try their very best to ease the suffering, find a solution to the thorn by your side. 

My friends would love her.

There are things that we cannot tell you, then there are things we choose not to tell you. Reading this, you could be a sister, a girlfriend, a mother, a daughter. As guys, we are obliged to keep things from you and live in denial once in awhile. Irritating as those things can be man, we gotta' let those around us know. If it's anger, vent it. If it's sorrow, find a pillar of bliss. If it's paranoia, well then seek professional help, hah. For the anger part i really cannot help because i'm someone who holds almost no grudges, and deep down inside i feel no anger whatsoever(yesyes, i can hear KS laughing already). This is meant for guys, not girls. I'm just shedding some light on how we function because i felt there was a need to enlighten the ignorant. 

Don't deny me.

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